Don't Be Mopey on Valentine's Day

Hello everyone! Potterfest is postponed, the post I was planning to do today requires me to go outside and do things and it is currently 1 degree outside so no thanks.

tomorrow is Valentine's Day. and honestly I couldn't care less ahah. But I'm not gonna be a Debby Downer, because I am NOT one of those people, and I'm here to tell you why you shouldn't be one of those people.

Chances're not going to be single forever. Especially if you're 15+ plus. If you're under 15 well I see no reason why you should be one of those people.

So maybe you should live it up. Because being single means you don't have to live up to someone's expectations, or give them gifts, spend your money on them. Being single means you don't have to love anyone but your immediate family.

Don't give me that: "I'm alone" crap. Do you have friends? Do you have family? Do you have books? Do you have Netflix? If the answer to any of these questions is YES, then girl, you aren't alone.

Go call up some people, invite them over, skype them, especially if they're alone on V-Day because they've probably been waiting for someone to call them up and talk to them. You're doing yourself and them a favor.

Or you can just forget its Valentine's Day, enjoy the cheap chocolate and go on with your day to day activities, like it's just some ordinary day.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO LOVE VALENTINE'S DAY. No one's stopping you. Make the DIYs, create the drinks, have fun with it, you can rock your Valentine's Day. Because you can love YOURSELF. Take yourself out on a date.

And if people judge you for liking Valentine's Day, screw em.

YOU CAN ALSO HATE VALENTINE'S DAY. If you think Valentine's Day is just a holiday that stores made up to sell you stuff like I do, that's fine. Pretend it's just a random ol' day in your life.

BUT. please don't ruin someone's else's day by saying you think it's stupid. Honestly, that's just mean and could really hurt someone. So try and keep that opinion to yourself :)

so you hate Valentine's Day because you don't have a valentine. And you're sitting around, watching old love movies and crying. no, okay that's not okay.

Because if you really want to have a valentine, you aren't going to get one by sitting around and sobbing about it. You gotta go get it.

Don't ruin your day by being sad and mopey, don't be one of those people. Be one of those other people and rock your Valentine's Day :)

You may watch those old movies, but you may NOT cry and pity yourself about it. capiche?

Have a nice Valentine's Day guys <3 Or just have a great Sunday!

What will you be doing for Valentine's Day? V-Day = yes or no for you? 

Thanks for reading,


  1. I will be celebrating my mom's birthday.

  2. Lol, I don't have a valentine, nor do I want one. I honestly couldn't care less about Valentine's day, and TBH I didn't even know Valentine's day was tomorrow. Oops! Sorry, I'm not sorry, XD

  3. Meh, i'm not big about valentines day. I don't hate it-I don't love it.

  4. oh my gosh, i have an actual valentine this year. he gave me presents and i was like dude you're awesome.

    seriously tho, right now i'm at a sleepover with my dance friends and they're all single so we're like "i love you guys" and dancing and eating ice cream and not really caring about valentines.

  5. Hey there- I nominated you for the creative blogger award!
    I know you are in the middle of potterfest (awesome idea by the way I have quite enjoyed watching it), but if you get a chance feel free to do it, but no pressure :)
    And happy Valentine's Day <3

  6. We never really celebrate Valentine's Day in my household, although today I bought chocolates for my family with my sister and we did buy a heart-shaped balloon!


  7. Valentines Day just means to be good to your family and friends, and have a rocking day. Your valentine could be one of your family members, you know? But we normally celebrate the Day by just having some fun!

  8. This is such a great post! I totally agree with everything, you couldn't have said it better ♥
    Amy xx

    Little Moon Dragon

  9. My dog is my bae this Valentine's Day. Not because I am forever alone, but because I love my dog more than most people.

    This is a great post, Noor.

  10. Aw such a cute post, Noor. I love it - it has a great message c:

  11. I was watching a bit of YouTube and spend time with my friend though it wasn't the best valentines day ( also im 12 and this was one of the best post in my opinion ) its was the end I kind of though of listening to love songs then it was amazing so, thanks Noor for all you do , you are best and hope you have an awesome day though its Monday when I commented on this Bye:)Peace:)

    1. You were spending time with Derpy dog I bet... I know cause I'm a stalker... Mwa-ha-ha!! Mwa-ha-ha ha-ha!!

  12. For V-Day, my sister and I gave my parents and brother a little surprise; we had decorated the walls with hearts and gave them all a chocolate. We don't usually celebrate V-Day, however.

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  13. I hate Valentine's Day. I once secretly gave my crush a valentine's love letter, and it was one of the most horrible things that have ever happened to me. He went round screaming because he was so angry with 'the mystery sender'. In less than a minute, the whole class was talking about it. I burst out crying, my friends burst out crying, and my crush burst out crying. And the teacher was really annoyed. Never doing THAT again.


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