Wednesday

Being Mad

Hello everyone! I kind of forgot to plan a post for today so I am doing this instead!

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Last night I was mad at my friend. She had said something that had hurt my feelings but I don't think she even realized.

You know, when you were younger (around the same age as I am) you used to get so mad at your friends for doing the silliest things? That's what I did. But it is stupid. Why do I even do that?

Then I was thinking, well why should I be mad at her when I can be happy and sort things out the right way? (Middle school theory is that if you ignore the person, they'll eventually catch on.)

The "right way" would be to talk it out. Calmly, relaxed, and don't yell. Things should get sorted out if you tell the person what is wrong. That person will most likely fix what the problem is and everything will be fine

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So I taught myself last night, that instead of being mad, find a way out of it! Put your brain to work and think of a solution instead of sitting there doing nothing. It makes life happier and less filled with anger.

You have probably already learned this in primary school but I just wanted to give a reminder. So go to that friend or family member that you are mad at and tell them. Let's make today, Empty Your Feelings Day. Tell anyone (even me!) what you've really wanted to tell them. It'll feel good to get it out!

I hope you enjoyed and if you haven't already, go check out the Blogscars over at Neal's blog!

Mkay bye,
Noor

24 comments:

  1. This is a great post! Everyone need a reminder like this ♥
    Amy xx

    Perfect Imperfections

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  2. great post this is really eye opening x

    http://hilarynirvana.blogspot.com/

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  3. Telling people that you're mad at them is hard... at least, when you tell them on the spot. But I do remember being taught this in elementary; thank you for the reminder. ^-^

    xoxo Morning

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    1. Yeah, it is hard to tell them without being rude. I am glad you enjoyed!

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  4. Yeah I remember I did something REALLY stupid when I was mad at my friend. I was in second grade and my friend kept on talking and talking and talking and taking and taking and so on and she kept on following me at that time I was in a really bad mood (I don't remember why) so I told on her and we both got in trouble (I know stupid right). Good times am I right ?

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    1. Haha, yeah I remember those silly fights.

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  5. Oh god. Today I got so mad at so many people and it got intense. I was just so argumentative and I don't want to be seen as a bitch. I need to be more easy going. I need to be less mad too. It's stupid but I hate it when someone takes my seat and I hate it when someone disses my music. That's my anger for today.

    -M
    The Life of Little Me

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    1. Yeah, in middle school, the second you do something bad or somewhat rude, you are automatically a "(what you said, I can't say the word :P)

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  6. Best way is to stop getting mad on silly little things and learn to let go :)
    and thank you again :)

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    1. I totally agree! You are very welcome!

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  7. This post is brilliant - something that we can all find useful :)

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    1. Thanks so much Emily. I am glad you enjoyed.

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  9. I sometimes find myself angry with friends, I'm usually the type of person who'll just keep my feelings in and give that person the silent treatment but I now know that telling someone is important. Brilliant post Noor.

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    1. I am so glad you enjoyed and that you learned something!

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  10. Dear, thank you so much for visiting my blog. I already follow you.
    Btw, great post.
    Kisses

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    1. Thanks Claudia! I am glad you enjoyed.

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  12. It's so lovely and refreshing to have little reminders like this during tougher times- thanks for the inspiration <3

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